4 friends looking for recommendations for a sumptuous, relaxing lunch spot in the sonoma area. We're not tied to any specific town, just looking for a nice spot (preferably with outdoor seating) where we can gossip. Ah, and one caveat--we'll be traveling with a 10 week old baby, who is really very good, but we want to be sure that we'll be treated well. Too many places don't like to accommodate babies and kids (for understandable reasons), but we want to relax and eat some spectacular food. Any suggestions?