So here's the deal: Spouse has offered a trip to either NYC or Montreal for my b'day this fall. We live between the two. We visit Montreal 1 - 2x per year, he goes to NYC every month for work. I can't decide between Montreal (newly redone Jean Talon market to check out, a couple BYOW I haven't tried yet, and another top dinner at Brunoise) or NYC (never been to Brooklyn, would love to spend a weekend nosing around and tasting). To note, we'll have our 3 y.o. with us. HELP ME CHOOSE!