Heading to San Fran for the first time with wife in mid July. Arrive Friday and stay at some hotel on the wharf Friday night. Want to have a very good meal - doesn't need to be fancy by any means (but can be), but maybe something different from NYC? I heard about Benu somewhere?
Then we're heading to Sonoma (Healdsburg) and if you have any recs there that would be great, but no biggie.
Lastly I'll be back in San Fran solo on Monday and Tuesday, leaving Wednesday. Lunch recs for both days? Solo sick meal on Tuesday night? Adventurous, perhaps. Or just super fresh. Something awesome, chill. Maybe I'll sit at a bar?