My girlfriend and I are getting ready to celebrate our 5 year anniversary next month. We did Le Bernardin last year and had a really good time. We are considering Cru or Aureolefor this year. Romantic would be nice but it need not be stuffy. We like to feel relaxed and at ease, not neccesarily pampered. Which of these two do you think offers the nicer overall experience. Food is much much more important than the room or the service. Thanks for your help!