Looking for some ideas for an 'out-of-the-box' wedding ceremony/reception venue. A "restaurant-y" feel with a nice bar area and space for mixing and mingling (as opposed to seated dinner). We're thinking ceremony, an extended cocktail 2-3 hours (hors d'oeuvres/stations), dessert, no dancing, with great food. We're thinking a Sunday in the fall. Not looking for a pricey venue, but something under-stated, yet elegant. Maybe 100 people. Manhattan, Westchester, Rockland preferrable. Ideas appreciated.