Thanks, Chows, for your recommendations.
We went to Hei La Moon and found it delicious. My shrimpless daughter was able to do fine with various pork buns, meatball, etc. My husband and I gorged on shrimp dishes. The shu mai were exeptional and we had some kind of Thai coconut covered shrimp that were also very good.
We'll go back again--maybe when my other daughter comes town so we can order even more. I am happy that we now have a really good place to go for dim sum. Thanks again.