I'm planning a dinner for 14 people for my Dad's 60th birthday (he's paying, I'm planning). He wanted to go to The Four Seasons for the food and the atmosphere. But it is just so ridiculously expensive. Does anyone have a favorite upscale restaurant that is both festive and elegant that could seat 14 at a table, but is below the Four Seasons price tag? Any advice would be much appreciated. I live in the Bay Area now and am not up on my NYC restaurants. FYI, it does not have to be in Manhattan. Any of the boroughs will do.