Another recent thread on this board got me thinking: what Boston restaurants have a front-of-house shtick, a kind of house style among servers that the place is known for and perhaps deliberately trains its staff to affect?
I'm talking about a kind of cultivated theatricality of one kind or another. One classic example is the old Durgin-Park, which had the "sassy, pushy, beefy old washerwoman in a beehive" thing going for decades. This went from being genuine, to being played up a bit for the tourist crowd, to being retired when the place got bought by a chain operator of historically-themed restaurants a few years ago.
Many touristy Italian-American restaurants feature waiters who are locals but affect thick, phony Italian accents. I ran into this most hilariously at Strega Waterfront not too long ago: our young waiter had a mamma-mia-datsa-spicy-meata-balla accent at our table, actually referred repeatedly to Mrs. MC as "bellissima", almost certainly unaware of the old SNL sketch. He then reverted to a working-class Revere lilt with his co-workers the moment he thought he was out of earshot.
Many Hounds have commented with bemusement and/or disgust about the dining room service at Craigie on Main, which I'd describe as "Allow me to educate you as to how lucky you are to be dining at our fabulous but not frou-frou temple of gastronomy" hauteur. (Doesn't bug me: I think Maws's food deserves a bit of snotty pedantry, but I prefer dining at its roomier-feeling bar anyway.)
L'Espalier's servers tend to be very understated, almost hushed, speaking in reverent, awed tones about "Chef's" food, but otherwise I'd say there isn't really a house style; I've encountered a wide range of personalities and approaches among the servers there. (Goes without saying that they're tremendously skilled.)
And there are ugly tourist-trap joints like Dick's Last Resort, which seems to think that servers who act like obnoxious pricks is a cute gimmick.
Then there's the diner / neighborhood bar archetype of the no-nonsense, gruff, "What yiz want?" server, like the lifer ladies at Victoria's Diner, or the older gent with the young-Elvis bouffant at the Eastie Santarpio's. But this maybe doesn't quite fit what I'm going for here. Those folks genuinely are what they are: it's not an act designed to be part of the experience, though it certainly adds to the ambiance.
I'd deliberately exclude the "Brian from Chotchkie's in 'Office Space'" chirpy, flair-bedecked, fake-fun persona of national casual-dining chain hellholes like TGI Friday's and Applebee's as unworthy of inclusion; I'm more interested in Boston-local restaurants.
774 Boylston St, Boston, MA 02199
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Craigie on Main
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379 Hanover Street, Boston, MA 02113