I'm planning my husband's 50th birthday party and we both love to eat so I'd like to plan it around that. I think it would be fun to rent a room at a vineyard and have a wine tasting pairing w/ meal but there are little ones in his family and this wouldn't work, pus it isn't nearby. Renting a place and having a pig roast or clam bake might work but this will be in November near the DC area so could be on the cold side. I don't want it in my house and other than possibly making the cake or other desserts, I don't want to be cooking this time. I want to enjoy the event. There will be over 30 people, I'm guessing, could be more. Any ideas? Thanks!