My boyfriend and I are hosting a wine tasting party this Saturday. We have kids and most of our friends do as well, so we have let them know kids are okay. Now we are looking at having 10-12 kids in our home, which is really a lot for our small space. My boyfriend thinks we should send out an email alerting our guests to this fact so they can be mindful of their own children.
I'm uncomfortable with this as I think it could be interpreted as offensive. What's the best way to handle this situation?