OK, PLEASE take some time to consider what a majority of people consider "romantic" and "quiet" before posting.
The PERFECT place to me would have been North Star in Pound Ridge, but my dinner companion does not want to travel that far. It is perfect though: not too big, not noisy - so you can talk to someone and actually hear them - and really quaint. And great food!
I am looking for someplace like that, but not as far.
Larchmont, Mamaroneck, Rye, Pleasantville, Bronxville, etc.
PLEASE a little help from my fellow foodies!