My husband and I are coming to the city from DC for a special weekend to celebrate our 5th anniversary. Please recommend your top choice for a special meal... no price limitations but we don't need to have the most expensive meal in town (ie, if we can get the same for less we'll take it, if not, fine). We're up for traditional or modern... old stand-by or newest hot-spot. Tasting with wine pairings a plus... for under $200 even better but not necessary. I've been looking at La Grenouille, Jean-Georges, Daniel, Bouley, Chanterelle, Eleven Madison Park, Asiate.