I suggested an afternoon tea for a friend's birthday. I chose the place and asked friends, casually over email, if they want to come. I'm wondering what we should do about the bill. Should I pick up the birthday girl's portion or should we all chip in for the bday girls portion? I chose the place so kind of feel like I should pay for her but also don't want to take away from them if they feel like paying for her.
Would love some help!