We will be staying in Napa for a week with our kids, 11 and 14. I know Napa is not really the first place you think of for a family vacation, but there you go. They are cool with all kinds of foods and settings, so I'm not looking for "kid-friendly" places. But the options are kind of overwhelming.
We like good, but not really fancy food (no interest in French Laundry), that is fresh, local, and seasonal. We will probably do more lunches out than dinners, especially in other towns, just to avoid the night time driving, but if there is a spot that is much better for dinner than lunch (or vice versa) we'd like to know that as well. Also interested in good happy hours, or places with good cocktail menus.