We have all been to Korean BBQ, but how do you eat it? Every time I go, I am shown something different. Do you have to order multiple main dishes? I have been admonished by waitresses to do so even though the four or so pounds of meat are a bit much for just my wife and me? Do you place the lettuce on the meat? On a side of rice? Do you eat all of the side dishes at any time? Do you turn and grill meat yourself, or always wait for the waitress? Are there other things to request? Are their different styles?