hey there...will be drving from NY via the garden state down to cape may to take the ferry over to lewes, DE. then from there i know i have to get onto 13, but was wondering if there are any must stops (not so much in NJ), but was thinking more like DE or VA. i'm looking for clam shacky type places (w/ excellent quality seafood of course), and down homey places, where one lady may be cooking all the food home made in the back, and the price is right. thanks for any info! oh, and where should we do breakfast in cape may, uncle bill's ya think??