I'm going to be visiting someone in Bethesda, and although we'll probably be right in DC some of the time, it would be nice to have a secret list of possibilities right there in Bethesda. I don't know the area, but it's probably in 20817.
I'd be interested in moderately nice places (she doesn't like scruffy), especially quiet places, since this will be very conversational, even confessional. I'd be interested in:
Ice cream parlors