Help! I’m drawing an ambivalent blank trying to come with a place for an anniversary dinner. Have done Rover’s too many times, dislike Canlis, went to Il Terrazzo Carmine for a recent birthday. I want formal, excellent service to match excellent food. No small plates (unless part of a multi-course menu). I know this is not NYC, but dreaming of Eleven Madison Park and Jean Georges wannabes. Any suggestions?