I want to meet up with a friend for a couple of glasses of wine or a cocktail and some appetizers in Pasadena. Late (like 9pm?) on a weeknight. I've read negative things about 750ml here and have already been to Vertical a few times so would like to try something else. Someplace mellow, not too brightly lit, with comfortable seating and good simple food. Lounges, wine bars, bars of restaurants could all work -- help?