If everything goes our way, my partner and I will be having a very small wedding with only our immediate family members and their significant others, sometime in mid-July 2010, most likely in NYC (my hometown - we live in Australia), and I'm hoping you guys can share ideas on where to host an intimate, formal dinner. I know it is still a while away, considering we are having something so small, but since some of us will be traveling so far, I want to plan a dinner so delicious and so memorable that we still think about it years later - you know, the sort of meal worth flying 18+ hours for. We do plan to hire a photographer to document the event, so a private room probably makes the most sense. Our budget is flexible - $100-200USD per person - less would be awesome, more is fine if that means a better meal and atmosphere. Most of us love sushi, seafood, and steak, except for one or two people. Ideas??