I'm working with my good friend's husband to put together an incredible surprise 40th birthday party for her. A former chef herself at some of the city's top restaurants, we're looking for a place that has incredible food (including desserts), a private room, and a cool vibe. Cost is not that much of an issue, though we don't want to do a Le Bernardin or Per Se. Any suggestions? Quality of food is more of a concern over type of cuisine. Thanks for any and all help!