Taking my wife to NYC for her 40th, erm.. 30th.. :) no, seriously, though, I am looking for suggestions for a dinner spot that is worthy of the occasion. She is a chef on her right and appreciates the culinary world. So what I am looking for?...Great food, of course.. But, (you'll probably flame me for this) the most important thing is the experience and the service..for that night. Becasue if we get pushed around, mistreated, kept waiting, etc, etc..all the mood will be gone and even the best of the dish from the most sought-after chef will be of no consequence. Thanks in advance.