Help, please! My cousin is getting married in Santa Barbara over Memorial Day weekend, and I'm planning to throw her a relaxed bridal shower/luncheon kind of thing the day before, for about 20 people. Does anyone know of a tea room or pretty lunch type of place that might be appropriate? A private room wouldn't be essential, but it would be nice. I'm completely unfamiliar with the area (both cousin and I are from Pennsylvania), so any advice would be greatly appreciated. She threw me a lovely luncheon shower when I got married, so I'm hoping to do something equally special for her.