Hi everyone--New York hound, San Francisco native, appealing to you all for help. My sister's 40th birthday is coming up in December and I'm looking for a good place--ideally with a private room--to host a surprise party for her either in San Francisco or Napa/Sonoma area for 25-35 people. We checked into Tra Vigne up there and Plump Jack in the city, but they're awfully pricey--like 75 bucks a head for the former and well over $100 a head for the latter when all is said and done (facility fee, tip, food, wine, etc). Any other recommendations? I'd really be into an upscaleish Chinese restaurant in the city if there were a good space. I'd say $75 per, all included, would be the absolute top...Thanks!