At this point, I know a few things about my proposal to my girlfriend. I will be dropping the m-bomb over a picnic in napa (ideally on a blanket, not at a picnic table, ideally with sweeping views, in a relatively private setting), and we'll be having dinner at the French Laundry at 9. But alas, I haven't figured out where the picnic's going to be, where to get the most delicious picnic food (on the drive up from sf), or which wineries to visit before and after the picnic. Also note that we're food snobs but not wine snobs, so I'm more concerned with being in beautiful places than drinking beautiful wines (though that, of course, wouldn't hurt).
So here's your chance to craft the perfect day in napa... your help will be profoundly appreciated.