I am a San Franciscan who hasn't been to NYC in many years. I will be celebrating my anniversary in your city and want to really splurge on a meal. I want the best of the best. We usually go all out this one time a year; so please advise me where we should be spending our $$$. Just for reference-- we went to French Laundry for our anniversary last year (I tried, unsuccessfully, to get into Per Se for this year...).
A happy tourist