Lots of research, thanks to everyone on here. I really appreciate the advice.
June 5: Staying at Embassy Suites - Napa. Arriving around 4, so just Dinner at Morimoto.
June 6 Breakfast: Alexis Baking Company
Drive up to Meadowood and check in
Lunch: Picking up items at a local Calistoga deli and having a picnic lunch in the olive tree
orchard at Ehlers Estate Winery
Dinner: The French Laundry
June 7: Breakfast: At Meadowood
Lunch: At Oxbow Marketplace - Anything to "Not to Miss" here
Dinner: Cindy's Backstreet Kitchen
June 8: Breakfast: At Meadowood
Lunch: Picnic at a TBD winery
Cocktails: Auberge du Soleli
Dinner: Restaurant at Meadowood
June 9: Leave Meadowood early and head back to SF
Breakfast: Walk around the Ferry Farmers Market and enjoy
Late Lunch: Swan Oyster Depot
Check into Hilton - Union Square
After Dinner Drinks: Wilson and Wilson
Any comments/last minute suggestions?