Will be in Durham, NC for a business trip on Valentine's Day (the wife is NOT happy about that). Will need to find somewhere good to eat and perhaps have a few drinks without:
1. Getting knocked over by frat hordes
2. Looking like the odd man out in a restaurant full of romantic couples.
Food tastes are varied; could go with anything from BBQ to ethnic.
Suggestions on good bars that wont be too afflicted by the clientele described above would be useful also.
Places with pool tables also sought.