Planning on spending three nights at one or the other in March. As far as food, accommodations, service, location, etc. how would you compare them? Carneros Inn is much more expensive. Is it worth it? Also, recs for other restaurants in the general vicinity would be appreciated. Which wineries should we not miss? Is Copia worth the time? I'm a cook, but will my husband be bored? We haven't been to wine country in years, so it's like a first time visit. Thanks in advance.