A couple times in the last few weeks the appetizers I've ordered have arrived during or after the main course. The first time, when I pointed it out, the waiter comped it. Yesterday at a different place when I asked where the spring rolls were, the waiter said they were coming. The place is not upscale and they were super busy, and I like the owners, so I didn't fuss, but it raised the question for me: do you say "I don't want them anymore" or do you expect them to be comped, or do you need to specify that your appetizers should be first and if you don't you suck it up? Obviously we are not talking about Lutece here, I am talking about more downscale places.