i'd love input for a dinner i'm organizing for an 80th bday dinner. our aunt's 87 year old beaux (!), who lives in philly, has asked me to find a restaurant..everyone (from 48 to 87) is a world-traveler and adventurous eater but he asked me for something special - a bit more toward the tablecloth service and one big thing is that the sound system isn't blaring. i've thought of tempo (but think it would surpass the budget) and maybe 5 front? he originally wanted it in manhattan due to certain people's logistics but i was thinking that dumbo might be very doable also. any general ideas?