I would like to throw myself a 40th bday party for about 40 people on Saturday, Jan 1st (my bday). I do not want a sit down dinner but am picturing a bar that would have bar food and an enclosed place for people to sit and mingle. I was hoping for music and dancing too to liven things up a bit. Location is not a concern -- I live on Long Island but will go to Manhattan, Queens, Brooklyn -- as long as it's fun! Any ideas? I am at a total loss.