I am taking my wife to napa/sonoma for 2 days next week and need some advice. last time we went to napa we hit all the big boys (opus, mondavi, chandon, coppola, etc), which was nice to see, but they were too big for their own good. no charm...no connection to the growers. That is what we want. Not huge vineyards that truck in bachelorette parties by the buttload to get wasted. If you guys have advice that would be great...we plan on one day in sonoma and one in napa. thansk~!