i will be visiting the bay area in november and am trying to get my dining itinerary in order. i will be staying at the river terrace inn located in napa valley and am planning on going to the french laundry, the restaurant at meadowood, and manresa. while TFL and meadowood will be easy drives, i am a bit concerned about manresa. my plan is to spend the day in san francisco and then make the trip down to manresa for dinner. how long of a drive should i plan on from the city proper to los gatos? also, what is the dress code at manresa? since i will be spending the day in the city and not going back to the hotel to change, i need to find a happy medium that will be comfortable for doing touristy things as well as the meal. would nice jeans and a blazer be ok at manresa or are most men in suits?