Our friend just moved out of my condo into his own apartment and I want to celebrate his move by making him a special dinner. He is from South Africa and hasn't had traditional SA food for a long time. His mother makes certain things, but bc they had a maid, she doesn't execute meals very well. So I need some help coming up with a traditional, but possible menu and recipes for this occasion. I live on the Pennsylvania/New Jersey border and can get some special spices, but not many, so if there is a substitute for ingredients, please let me know. Also , because I am a product of the United States school system, the metric system was always threatened, but never enforced, so if possible, please limit the grams and milliliters...LOL! But if you must, I'll just look at a conversion table online. Thank you for your help!!!!