please, help me. hubby is turning 40 next month. i want to do a backyard dinner for 35 adults, 20 children. i'm not looking for your typical BBQ like Blue Ribbon but rather what i am looking for is a chef/caterer to grill some steaks/prime rib and put together some sides and apps in my backyard. how do i go about it? look for a caterer? an event planner? a personal chef? i wish i could tell you what i'm looking to spend, but i am unsure. we usually do all the shopping/prep/grilling ourselves (ok hubby does) but i want to sit back and enjoy this evening. any suggests, recommendations would be well appreciated. thanks!