I feel almost filthy posting this query, but you Hounds ought to have some good tips (though hopefully not firsthand ones). If one were to look for a quiet restaurant at which to break up with a woman whom one has been seeing for a while, and one is married, where might one go? Yes, yes, bad, bad. Back Bay preferred, as is someplace VERY private, quiet, out of the way, yet public enough in case things get "messy." And no, this is not me, nor Mr. Swank!