Hello! I am a Brit girl who just moved to Oceanside. I am looking for a nice pub/bar/cocktail lounge where I can go and get a nice pint of beer do the NY Times crossword puzzle and just be left alone to enjoy myself. I have tried a few pubs but seem to get groups of marines standing there ogling and leering at me. Not a comfortable atmosphere! (Nothing against marines, just the leery ones) Are there any nice places, maybe with an older married clientele who aren't there to hit on each other? I don't need fancy, just nice cosy atmosphere.