My boyfriend, brother and I are taking my parents to Napa and Pebble Beach for their 35th wedding anniversary. We are looking for some restaurant recommendations in both the Carmel/Monterey area as well as Napa/Sonoma. I'm looking for an idea as to places both upscale and casual (can't afford $30+ entree's every night we are away). Cuisine can be pretty much anything. Given there will be 5 of us we can't really afford French Laundry (although i am thinking of spending the money so my folks can enjoy it themselves one evening). Any recommendations are greatly appreciated. Thanks!!