My husband and I will travelling to Napa for the first time in March for an anniverary trip. We will be staying in Napa. Looking for an anniversary dinner with memorable food (open to whatever kind), great service in an atmosphere that isn't overly stuffy. From researching this board, right now we are looking at Redd, Bouchon, or Ad Hoc but open to other ideas. I think we will be eating at Ubuntu another night while we are there. Can you please help in narrowing down the best option? Thanks for your help!