We are planning a girls' getaway weekend in the North Fork for the end of September/beginning of October.
We are staying in Greenport for four nights and are taking a trolley wine tour one day where the winery visits will be predetermined. We also have one day where we will be driving and selecting our own winery stops and another day when we will take the ferry over to the South Fork for the day - horseback riding, spa, and Channing Daughters Winery.
I am looking for winery stop suggestions. The trolley tour will focus on the smaller wineries. For the day we are on our own (a Saturday), I am looking for spots that offer good wine, music, and other special offerings - like a market or tasting featuring local food artisans/producers - but are not overly commercial.
I'd also love restaurant suggestions. We'll be having most of our dinners in Greenport but would also like lunch/dinner suggestions for Shelter Island/Montauk/East Hampton.