OK, here's my question/peeve. When I'm invited to eat at someone's place, or even if not eating, I always offer to/bring something to eat, or drink. Last night I had a Yom Kippur break-fast, invited five families consisting of over 20 people, and only 1 ( a single guy) brought food; another threesome brought flowers. I only want people to ask, and then I can respond accordingly. But, am I wrong to think you can be invited, not ask, show up and eat/drink, and not at least make the offer to bring something?