Here's the deal..we've been to Jar a miillion times and love it, but want steak for his birthday. We will be joined by our beautiful 10 year old daughter, so we are in no need of a hip scene. We want AMAZING food, and a clubby (not club), comfortable setting. We have never tried Ruth's Chris. Any advice would be greatly appreciated. He is not only my husband, he's the love of my life. Thanks in advance.