I need to drive up from Richmond, VA to Northern Virginia to meet up with some friends. They live all around Fairfax, Arlington and Alexandria. I'm looking for a Chowhound worthy spot that will not be horribly inconvenient for anyone (especially me!). Can anyone recommend a good (non-chain) place for a cocktail and a meal close to I-95? Is there anything in Occoquan - as geographically speaking that would work well.