Out of town family would like to host a dinner for our cousin who is being married in the Dedham area on 5/15/10. Dinner is the night before. We don't yet have a budget but we know we'd like it to be casual. We can go to Boston but there are some older people who might not mind if it was somewhere in the Dedham area (where the hotel is) and where we could drive, rather than take public transit. The group we are hosting are from Ireland. There are some children involved. We may be talking about a group of 45 or so. Any thoughts appreciated.