We are in our 40s and love a good meal with dancing afterwards. we definitely do NOT want the young teeny bop or even college aged club scene, but an elegant time with similar aged folks. when we went to NYC we found many such places. in fact one place taught swing dance lessons and we had a great meal. we danced a little, ate a little, then danced some more. it was the best. havent found anything like that here in the boston area. anybody have any recs?