I've been given the task of choosing the restaurant for a family get-together (no pressure..ha!). We prefer Shanghaiese, but are open to other suggestions. We love good XLB's, and I have an intense craving for stir-fried rice cakes. The majority prefer noodle and rice dishes, and we'll likely be ordering some crab as well. Thanks for your input.
And if you could add what your favorite dishes are that would be a real bonus!