Much to my upset and disappointment, my son is radically allergic to dairy. Even the slightest trace of whey or non-fat milk solids way down on an ingredient list sends him to the hospital. We're hoping he'll grow out of it and that his life won't be a cheeseless wasteland, but in the meantime, he's turning one this Sunday and we want to get him a birthday cake. Can anyone suggest a good bakery - I'm thinking a Kosher bakery because there's a religious imperative to be dairy-free in desserts served with a meat. I'd considered Mani's, but I'm not a huge fan - I find most of their desserts overly dense and tasteless. What say you chowhounds?