Do Chinese people do this? Or this more of a Western rule of etiquette?
I was watching a period piece the other night, and there was a scene of a large feast and for the life of me, no one put the napkins on their lap.
In fact, most of the scenes didn't even show napkins whatsoever.
Then I thought back to some of the soap operas that I used to watch with my grandmother (RIP), and I don't recall what the normal course of procedure was for the napkin at the table, or even if there was one.
And, honestly, growing up I don't know if I was taught anything about napkins, and how to place or not place them during dinner service. Alot was said about chopsticks, soup spoons, serving your elders, etc. But I don't know if anything in particular was said in an "Emily Post" fashion about napkins.