We'll be in Carmel for 4 nights next month and would like 4 terrific dinners in Carmel/Monterey/Pacific Grove area. We would like to avoid Asian restaurants (we have great Asian at home), prefer American, Seafood, French or Italian. Nice ambiance, good cocktails, and not too loud are all plusses. In the past we've enjoyed Marinus at Bernardus, Fandango in Pacific Grove, and La Bicyclette (but only for lunch). Aubergine would be fine for 3 of us, but the menu would not be good for one of us who is pretty much a meat (or fish) and potatoes person. What 4 restaurants would you pick?